Hexagram 37

The Family (Jiā Rén)

Above: Wind · Below: Fire

The family's fire needs everyone to add fuel

Hexagram 37 · The Family (Jiā Rén)

The judgment

In a family, it is most favorable when the woman of the house holds to what is right; when everyone keeps to their part, the family thrives.

The Image: Wind comes out of fire: the family. So the noble person speaks with substance and acts with constancy.

Hearts turn inward, and the family prospers. Strict, upright and constant, the heart does not waver.

Heaven sends the red crow, and the armies keep their appointed day …

Before King Wu marched, heaven sent a red crow and the day was set. A family of one heart is like an army moving together.

On fortune: wind fed by fire grows wilder, and fire fanned by wind burns brighter — this is the peak of good fortune. In word and deed, make every effort.
On trade: these goods should not be sold in a hurry; later they will fetch a high price.

Wind and fire help each other; mind your words and deeds

Phlegm and qi rising; heal slowly

Don't sell in a hurry; better prices later

Set house rules; take care with fire

A well-ordered home; a lucky marriage

The health notes are traditional observations to reflect on. If you feel unwell, follow your doctor’s advice.

The six lines

Nine at the beginning: Firm boundaries within the household. Regret vanishes.
Six in the second place: She does not follow her own whims; she sees to the meals within. Steadfastness brings good fortune.
Nine in the third place: When the family is scolded sternly, there is regret and danger, but good fortune. When wife and children giggle and play, humiliation in the end.
Six in the fourth place: She makes the household rich. Great good fortune.
Nine in the fifth place: The king comes to his family. Do not worry. Good fortune.
Nine at the top: Sincere and commanding respect. Good fortune in the end.

Reminders from the ancients, offered for reflection only.